Sweet Maxon,
I have so much to tell you. I just haven't been able to keep up with your letters or Mollie's letters, so I'm likely going to miss a lot, but let's just get started and see what I do remember!
Words: All of them? There isn't much you can't say, so some of my favorites:
Fox: Fuck
Flag: Fuck
Frog: Fuck
Abbey Cadaby (from Sesame Street): Dumpy Diapers (I have no idea how this got started)
Train: Tains
Airplane: Airpane
Helicopter: Hel-cotter
Tour Bus: Too Bus
School Bus: Schoo bus
Mr. Luke (Bryan): Gook
Mollie: Moyyee
Monster Truck: MonstTruck
The way you say Fire Truck, Dump Truck, and every other kind of truck is adorable. Basically the way you say everything is adorable, but you talk nonstop... even when we don't understand what you are saying. You are super patient when you are trying to communicate with us, because you want us to know what you are saying. You LOVE animals of all kinds and talk about them all the time.
The ducks from School.
Like Daddy, Like Son
Look how you stare at your daddy!
You are a pro on this scooter... this was from when you were 21 months.
Balance Bike!
Ice Cream date with Daddy!
What you are NOT patient with or what we are struggling with is your hitting and now kicking. You hit when you are excited, when you are mad, when you are trying to make a point, when we don't move fast enough. We spend a lot of time in the thinking chair. I ask "do we hit" and your answer is "Nooooooooooo" (very passionately by the way), then you get up, go ask your latest victim "you Okay" with your sweet head tilted to the side with the sweetest tone in your voice, you offer a kiss of the bruised and beaten site location, and then all is well. For twelve minutes. We had gotten it down to a bare minimum, but then it came back with force, so we are really working through that. Mollie is so patient... you really abuse her too.
However, you are the sweetest, most cuddly, most hilarious and expressive, fun, attentive, empathetic little guy. So... while we don't let you get away with hitting... it is super easy to move on. I currently have a couple of major injuries, but there is no doubt your my guy. You love your mommy, but man - you have given me some pretty painful bruises/scratches/etc.
OH. MY. WORD.
At school eating... always eating... :-)
Climbing, hanging, rolling, jumping, every crazy active thing you can find to do!
Gosh that smile... both of your smiles!
Making friends while Mollie does her favorite thing... Gymnastics!
Favorite Books: Monster Trucks, Where's My Mommy, Go Dogs Go, Peanut Butter and Cupcake, The Little Engine That Could. You LOVE to read. It is a really big deal for you and there is absolutely no skipping book time at nap time or bed time. I LOVE this and I hope it always continues.
Our nightly routine is a thing and you do not like to deviate (kind of like your dad)... We take a bath (most of the time), brush teeth, read books - lots of them, then drink some water, get under the covers and I give you kisses; mommy kisses, tummy kisses, mommy pig kisses, butterfly kisses, and so many more. Then we do a big hug and then blow each other kisses... As I turn off the light - I whisper that I love you, and you drift off to sleep.
You love to dance, kick a ball, throw a ball, bat a ball, wear necklaces, watch trains (only real ones will do), watch planes and helicopters taking off and landing, and playing in water. You are learning to swim. You WILL NOT close your mouth and you only blow bubbles some times. You just spent a week with Ms. Carolyn and you were definitely floating on your back and rolling over to your back, but you fight it. You won't be as easy as Mollie, but I think you will be just as good of a swimmer. We have two more weeks with Mr. Brendan.
Ms. Carolyn... she's taught both of my babies to save their own lives... Now STOP drinking the water and blow your bubbles already!
Oh my how I love you... I adore you... I am so thankful for you and the joy that you are in our lives. I can't sleep half the time for the worry I have for you and your sister... mostly about things out of my control, but I will feel all of those feels to have the honor to raise you and love you and to be your mommy. I love you my sweet boy.
Love, Mommy